• Life is one giant lesson after another

    Sometimes, people walk into your life and you just know. You know they’re here for a reason—to teach you something, to challenge you, to help you discover who you are, or who you’re meant to become. You can’t predict who they’ll be—a roommate, a neighbor, a professor, a long-lost friend, a lover, or even a…

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  • Learning to love my own imperfections

    Yesterday morning started like most mornings—routine, automatic. I opened my closet, grabbed an outfit without thinking. I shaved my legs with a brand-new razor, noticed the faint red marks, but dismissed them. No one would see. I threw on a blue blouse, dark jeans, boots, layered my jewelry, grabbed my things, and headed out the…

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  • The Day I Almost Didn’t Stay

    August 13, 2017 I woke up early and went for a run. It was cold—the kind that bites at your skin and settles in your chest—but I ran anyway. Hard. Like if I didn’t stop moving, I wouldn’t have to feel what was chasing me. By the time I got back, my body was shaking,…

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  • The Piranha of Your Heart

    My heart once saw you through a straw—narrow, softened,filtered by the innocence of loving you.I never noticed how betrayal fit youlike a name you’d always carried,until it slowed my heartbeatto something barely alive. I would rather tear myself apart—fingernail by fingernail—than offer youeven one last tear. The best of me is still ahead,waiting where you…

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  • Home

    When we first met, I thought I had found a place to rest—a home. I didn’t realize that while I was searching for peace, you were searching for an escape. To me, home is softness. It is quiet laughter, gentle mornings, blooming flowers, and a love that feels safe enough to grow. But your idea…

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  • Hot yoga saved the weekend 

    I get it now. I finally understand the hype around hot yoga. If you’re even remotely able-bodied and reading this, do yourself a favor—take advantage of that $49 unlimited month at Sol Yoga in La Jolla. Back home, I could get ten sessions for ten bucks, so yeah… I definitely questioned my sanity handing over…

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